My friend and DS colleague, Phil Stevenson, recently wrote the following blog, that I share with his permission.
George Zimmer was the founder and CEO of Men’s Wearhouse. When he was the face of the company his tagline was, “You’re going to like the way you look. I guarantee it.” His personal guarantee was his pledge and promise. And he sold a great deal of men’s clothing on that guarantee.
On a John Maxwell webinar, he noted that growth is the only guarantee that tomorrow will get better stating that, “Calendars guarantee you’ll get older, but not better,” Maxwell observed that older takes no effort, but better entails work. Growth is the responsibility of each person. You have to be intentional. Books (read and listened to), podcasts, seminars, and online training are just a few of the delivery systems that can be used. There is no lack of growth opportunity.
Growth equals change. It is impossible to grow without changing. Every growth level demands a new change level. Growth is the great separator between those who succeed and those who don’t. A person never ages out of growth. Growth is not time sensitive. You can choose to grow as long as you have breath.
Finally, Maxwell suggests a very simple growth process: 1) Learn: Ask, what do I need to learn? 2) Unlearn: This is just as important as learning. Some things you need to quit doing so you can move forward. 3) Relearn: The adage that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks may apply to Rover, but it has no place in your life.
Growth is a choice that leads to action, that leads to change, that leads to betterment. I guarantee it!
Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.
–Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV)
I am becoming increasingly convinced that if we are really going to change the makeup of eternity we are going to have to make disciple-making a higher priority. We are busier than ever, but it seems that we are making more religious consumers than we are disciples. The Great Commission, in too many cases, has become The Great Omission.
Perhaps part of the problem is that we haven’t really taken the time to define what a disciples is. What does a disciple look like? What is it, exactly, that we are trying make?
I’ve been wrestling with that just a bit, so I searched the Gospels to see how Jesus defines discipleship (what Jesus says is always a good place to start). In fact, I wrote a sermon on the subject that I have preached in a number of our churches over the past few months. What I saw was:
Author Chad Walsh said this: “I suspect that Satan has called off his attempt to convert people to agnosticism. After all, if a man travels far enough away from Christianity, he is liable to see it in perspective and decide that it is true. It is much safer, from Satan's point of view, to vaccinate a man with a mild case of Christianity so as to protect him from the real disease.”
May we never be satisfied with vaccinating people with a mild case of Christianity. May we always be driven to make disciples who learn, follow, love and reproduce.
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 (NKJV)
Wow! What a statement! I can do all things, not some things, but all things through Christ! It works kind of like this. Once, when Michael Jordan was with the Chicago Bulls, he had a game where he scored 65 points. They were so far ahead, at the end of the game the coach cleared the bench and put in all the guys who never got to play. The sub who replaced Jordon scored one point on a free throw. Later, he was asked about his most memorable experience in basketball. He said, “It was the night that Michael Jordan and I scored 66 points.”
That’s how it works. “I can do all things through Christ…” Look at what Jesus and I accomplished together! When something good happens, we all know who really gets the credit.
The two most important words in the above verse are “through Christ.” They may also be the hardest two word n s in the verse, especially for us “Type A” personalities whose tendency is to act first and pray later.
In November I was privileged to attend an Exponential church multiplication cohort with my fellow District Superintendents. One of the themes that kept coming up over and over again is that nothing happens without fasting and prayer. Nothing??? Yeah, nothing. If I want the supernatural strength that comes “through Christ”, prayer and fasting is a prerequisite.
In his classic book, Spiritual Leadership, J. Oswald Sanders writes,
“…strange paradox, most of us are plagued with a subtle aversion to praying. We do not naturally delight in drawing near to God. We pay lip service to the delight and potency and value of prayer. We assert that it is an indispensable adjunct of mature spiritual life. We know that it is constantly enjoined and exemplified in the Scriptures. But, in spite of it all, too often we fail to pray.”
And he’s right. Many of us pay lip service to the value and importance of prayer, but when it comes right down to it, we don’t pray. At least not like we should.
God has called us to change the makeup of eternity in the upper Midwest by multiplying until we have a transforming presence in every zip code. That vision is too big to accomplish through human effort, so, as I go into the year 2020, my resolution is to strengthen my prayer life by fasting weekly. I challenge you to join me and I invite you to hold me accountable.
Happy New Year! I can’t wait to see what Jesus accomplishes through us in 2020!
1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was with God in the beginning. 3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. 14The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.
– John 1:1-3, 14a (NIV)
Over the next few weeks you will hear all kinds of comments regarding “what Christmas is all about.” You’ll hear them on the radio, on TV specials and in casual conversations with friends and neighbors. You may hear well-intentioned comments like, “giving is what Christmas is all about” or “being with family is what Christmas is all about.”
Here’s one of my favorites that comes from Jay Leno’s “Headlines” segment that he used to do on The Tonight Show. That was the segment where he read strange or funny headlines and advertisements from newspapers. This particular year there was an ad for the Center for Dental Implants that said, "The gift of chewing is what the holidays are all about.” I’m pretty sure that’s not right…
So, what is Christmas really all about? The real meaning of Christmas can be summarized in the word, “incarnation.” Incarnation is a theological word that simply means, “God in the flesh.” Christmas is all about Jesus becoming human and coming to Earth so that he could save us. I have to admit that the incarnation is something that absolutely blows my mind! God becoming flesh, fully human, fully divine – not one or the other, not either/or, but both/and.
The Apostle, John, says that “through him (Jesus) all things were made.” Picture the nativity scene through that lens if you want to have your mind blown. He created the wood that the manger he laid in was made from. And he created the hay that lined the manger. He even created his own mother, and yet, he depended on her for his very existence. How can we, as finite humans, get our minds around that? Martin Luther must have struggled with those kinds of thoughts as well because he wrote in one of his hymns, “He whom the world could not enwrap, yonder lies in Mary’s lap.”
Soren Kierkegaard told the story of a king who loved a humble maiden. This king was like no other king. Every person and every nation trembled before his power. And yet this mighty king was melted by love for a humble maiden.
How could he declare his love for her? In an odd sort of way, his very kingliness tied his hands. If he brought her to the palace and crowned her head with jewels and clothed her in royal robes, she would surely not resist. But would she love him? Or would she live with him in fear? How could he know?
The king, convinced he could not elevate the maiden without crushing her freedom, resolved to descend. He clothed himself as a peasant and approached her cottage incognito. He renounced the throne to win her hand.
That’s exactly what Jesus did for us; he renounced his throne to win us. That is the wonderful truth of the incarnation. John said it best: “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.” C.S. Lewis also expressed it really well: “The Son of God became man to enable men to become the sons of God.”
That’s what Christmas is all about, and it’s a gift that’s way better than “the gift of chewing.”
Parker Palmer, in his book, Leading from Within wrote, “A leader is a person who must take special responsibility for what’s going on inside him- or herself, inside his or her consciousness, lest the act of leadership create more harm than good.” That’s the burden of ministry; if we fail at soul care, not only do we harm ourselves, we harm those whom we lead.
I think we all know that our public ministry will never be any better than our private relationship with Jesus. At least we say we know that, but sometimes the way we fail to care for our own souls would indicate that we believe ourselves to be some kind of special exception to that rule. Seems like we spend more time and energy on our public ministry than we do on our private selves. The stuff that shows gets our attention and, too often, we neglect our inner selves, that part of us that isn’t immediately visible.
In his book, The Life God Blesses, Gordan McDonald told a parable involving two men who each decided to build a sailboat. The first man built a boat with all of the bells and whistles; colorful sails, teakwood deck and brass railings. His boat was a sight to behold but, much to the chagrin of the old sailors who were watching him build, he neglected the keel and paid little attention to things like weight and ballast…the parts of the boat that were below the waterline. He christened his beautiful boat, the Personna, and set out on its maiden voyage. A few miles from shore a sudden storm came out of nowhere, engulfed the Personna, and the boat and its foolish builder were never seen again.
The second builder went about things differently. His boat wasn’t nearly as beautiful to behold, but he paid special attention to the keel, the hull and he made sure that he had the right amount of ballast. In other words, he didn’t neglect the parts of the boat that would be below the waterline. He christened his boat the Christos and set sail on its maiden voyage. He also was set upon by a sudden storm just a few miles from shore, but unlike the Personna, the Christos had adequate weight below the waterline, so she was able to face the best that the storm had to offer. And not only did the Christos and her builder survive the storm, they were able to rescue others who hadn’t built so well.
In John Wesley’s Holy Clubs (we would call them small groups), the first question asked was, “How is it with your soul?” Good question. Are you taking care of the stuff below the waterline? How is it with your soul?